PEOPLE MARRY FOR SEVERAL REASONS;

SECURITY

For some, financial security is the topmost consideration and love comes second or worst, is the least of all priorities. They believe love can be learned ; with solid financial standing , life will be easy and love will come along the way. Such union is based purely on materialism and is more of an investment contract than a union of hearts.

NECESSITY

Some relationship start with love,but when pregnancy occurs and both parties are forced to marry to save their reputation against judgement by the society and community they belong, the love disappears and is replaced by the element of urgency to marry , thus making the couple uncertain of their decision and later their relationship.

FAMILY PRESSURE

This kind of union is a contract between parents or guardians without the direct participation of the parties involved. This is a tactical move of clans, families, or parents for political, financial or personal consideration.

CONVENIENCE

Some marry their partner to boost their image for whatever purpose they want , mainly to cover up their dreaded secrets and weaknesses. Their marriage is more of a show-off so that a weakling can be acceptable as strong person in society.

These kinds of marriage can be easily toppled by a soulmate encounter. Yet how, one may ask can a soulmate perfect their life if they are creating new karma? Always remember that every decision or action has some karmic consequence on everybody within their circle. And any of the above mentioned reasons for marrying makes one in debt to his or her partner, and thus, meeting and fulfilling one's life with their soulmate will not create problem at all because it is actually ending the karmic debt to all parties involved.

The true essence of LOVE:

Based on God's doctrine love knows no conditions. What matters is what one truly feels for another ,not what one can give or offer, not what one can do, not the vanity, but mainly and principally, what's inside one's soul . You will only feel this with your soulmate , not just with anybody , not even the one who's at your side this very moment , or the one you are about to marry for any of the reasons mentioned above.

A soulmate is a special person in your life- no other person can replace him or her. Soulmates find each other for a special reason , which is that the union will bring hope, happiness and fulfillment to those who need it. Separation is inevitable to those whose union is not solely and entirely ruled by unconditional love.

Source: AVV106